Sex Cravings All Guys Have

There are certain things a man needs to be satisfied in the sack but just won't ask for.

While men might brag to their friends about the kick-ass sex they're having, they rarely get into specifics. And when it comes to actually divulging their secret desires to the women in their lives...well, they're even more tight-lipped. Though every male has different needs, there are some universal sex moves and attitudes that most men want but don't know how to request.

HE WANTS A GIRL WHO CAN TURN HERSELF ON

Women need time to get revved up. Although man may be more than willing to pull out all the stops to get women hot, he wouldn't mind if you gave yourself a running start. A number of women still believe that it's solely a man's job to arouse them. To have a really fulfilling sexual experience though, women have to put some effort into getting themselves into a sexual state of mind.

To give your libido a boost, draw on the same sources of inspiration you use during solo self-pleasuring missions. Once his seduction scheme begins, close your eyes and fantasize about a hot encounter you had with your man...or even some other dude. It's totally okay to think about another sexual partner when you're trying to turn yourself on. You just might not want to tell your boyfriend about it.

HE WANTS SEX TO BE FUN

Unfortunately, real-life romps aren't as seamless as they are in the movies. Things don't always go smoothly during sex — some positions don't work, and odd noises happen.If you get hung up on a mishap, it will ruin the mood. But if you can both laugh, it becomes a light bonding moment.Frisky fun is about more than damage control though. Make a silly bet to be paid off in sexual favors or play a board game naked in bed and agree that the loser has to grant the winner one lusty request.

HE WANTS YOU TO DROP HINTS

When it comes to pleasing the women in their lives, every man wishes he had ESP (extrasexual perception). But the truth is, your libidinous longings can be baffling. That's why a guy loves it when you're able to guide him without barking out .

So when giving erotic instruction, throw in some positive reinforcement. Tell him how good it feels when he does something right, or remind him of a technique that always gets you off. If he's not giving you enough foreplay, ask him to use his hand or mouth to warm you up, saying that you want to draw out the experience.

HE WANTS TO WATCH

For men, what they see is almost as good as what they get, so make sure to give him an eyeful.

Another way to turn him on with sight: Keep some clothes on. Sometimes men prefer when you leave a little to the imagination. Sexy lingerie can be as arousing — or more so — as being nude, because it builds anticipation. More great views: you in girl-on-top position or, if you're feeling brave, touching yourself in front of him.

HE WANTS YOU TO BE NAUGHTY

Even if you're a bad girl at heart, you might hold back with your guy. Women are often afraid to get naughty in a relationship, because they don't want to shatter any 'good girlfriend' image he has or they don't want him to think they're weird. But men want to see that no-holds-barred side of you — they just don't want to offend you by asking for it.

What dirty-girl tricks fit the bill? Pretty much anything that shows him how much you like sex and how much you want it with him. To let him know you're into him, grab his butt hard when he's climaxing or gently nip his shoulder.

You may also want to do something unexpected, like initiating a new position or trying a passion prop.

HE WANTS A "WOW, WHAT WAS THAT?" EXPERIENCE

To separate yourself from the pack, you'll need to pull a move so wild, he won't be able to stop thinking about it the next day. If you've mastered one particular technique that's really hot and different, the entire erotic experience will stand out in his mind. You may also want to come up with your own signature mouth move.

Now, you don't have to bust out a complicated trick best used by yoga instructors — just tweak an old standby, say, switching between oral sex and intercourse...with him blindfolded.

HE WANTS TO MIX THINGS UP

Repetition can make once-hot sack sessions seem ho-hum. So be open to varying things in bed. Any change in speed, pressure, or position will make the act more interesting and pleasurable. Variety keeps him in a heightened state of arousal because he never knows what to expect.

During foreplay, wrap your fist around his member (with lube!), moving it up and down with long, smooth strokes. Then add your other hand, and gently twist both hands in opposing directions. When you get to intercourse, start off slowly in missionary. Next, rest your feet on his shoulders for deeper thrusting. Finally, roll over, and let him enter you from behind.

HE WANTS NOOKY OUT OF NOWHERE

You'll win big sexual points with your guy if you spring sex on him out of the blue. It gives him a huge ego boost by reinforcing the fact that you're really hot for him.

HE WANTS TO TAKE YOU

The best way to bring out the sexy beast in your guy? Initiate some take-me-I'm-yours action. He'd love to be raw and animalistic with you, but he needs to know you want it too. Kiss him seductively and then pull away, saying that if he wants more, he can come and get it. During the act, you can also tell him "harder" or "faster" if you feel like he's handling you with kid gloves.

HE WANTS TO DO NOTHING SOMETIMES

On the flip side, occasionally men prefer it when you take over. Lying back while a chick has her way with him is an ultimate guy fantasy.

For a softer approach, treating your man to allover titillation: Have him lie on the bed naked. Then, starting at one foot, kiss and lick your way up his leg and along the crease where his thigh meets his torso. Next, move to his side, up to his neck, and down to his main event. When you're ready for intercourse, treat him to reverse-cowgirl so he can't help you, even if he wants to. The payback will be awesome.