Some Crazy Facts About Sex

1. Humans aren’t the only ones who perform oral sex. Cheetahs, hyenas, and goats all go down.

2. The clitoris is the only organ in the human body with just one purpose: pleasure.

3. Men who looked at porn of two men and one woman produced more sperm than those who looked at just women. Scientists speculate that seeing competition makes men step up their baby-making capacities.

4. As Brazilian waxes have become more popular, the pubic-lice population has dwindled.

5. Male chimps, bears, dogs (and almost all mammals besides humans) actually have a bone in their penis.

6. Coffee and booze can make semen taste bitter, while pineapple, celery, and melon make it taste less strong.

7. Women with hourglass figures tend to be more fertile.

8. Some of the first tampons were made of lint wrapped around wood.

9. The clitoris is shaped like a wishbone that’s about 3 to 4 1/2 inches long.

10. Male honeybees only get to have sex once in their life...because it kills them. During ejaculation the penis breaks off inside the female, and the male dies within hours.

Four Master Kissing Techniques

There's smooching and there's lighting a fire on his lips. These moves will burn him up.

We know what you're thinking. A kiss? Big whoop. You've had your mouth-to-mouth MO nailed since junior high. But what you might not have realized is that by customizing your lip-locking to the occasion, you can actually take your necking up a notch. Even the best kissers can add bewildering power. The secret is knowing what kind of kiss the situation calls for and then switching your moves accordingly.

The Hot Hello

The quick "Hi, honey" peck is no way to rebond with your babe, whether you've been missing him since your morning bagel or last Saturday night. Set the tone for your time together with a kiss that makes him think, Oh you are happy to see me. Greet your guy with enthusiasm and he'll immediately feel loved and appreciated. A high-energy hello smooch is the ultimate way to communicate that excitement and foreshadow the fun to come. Plus, when he kisses you back with the same degree of desire, you'll feel that love rush too.

The hot hello actually starts long before your lips meet. Let's set the scene: You see your guy. Maybe he's working his way across the bar, maybe he's standing on your doorstep. You lock eyes, flash him a smile, and slowly begin your approach, maintaining eye contact the whole way. When he's in close range, utter a husky "Hey there, gorgeous" and press your body up against his. This is key for creating intimacy: You don't want to strike the disastrous A-frame pose (think lips together, hips miles apart).

Okay, bodies meshed? Roger that. Now it's time to pucker up, baby. Wrap your hand around the nape of his neck and pull his face gently toward you. When your mouths finally meet, maintain a strong but closed-lip seal for up to 10 sultry seconds.

Tip: Keep your tongue reined in; this kiss should shoot straight from the lip. Hey, there'll be plenty of time for tongue twisting at the end of the night — keep him in anticipation of what's to come as you pull away.

The Movie-Star Make-Out

Ever have one of those omigod-we're-so-in-love-moments with your boyfriend? You know: You're gazing into each other's eyes. Time stands still. You swear you hear music building in the background. That's where we're going with this Hollywood-style hookup. When a couple is feeling that paralyzing surge of passion, words just get in the way, instead of trying to explain that you wish you could devour him whole, give him everything you've got with an over-the-top doozy of a smooch. Warning: Since you can't contain chemistry of this magnitude, this make-out sesh can happen anytime, anywhere, but you'll be too busy luxuriating in the lip-lock to notice the spectators gathering.

Okay, this fan favorite needs drama. Act one: The Dip. First, get your guy to wrap his arms around your waist. Then seductively work your right hand over his chest and up to the nape of his neck and hold on tight. Here's your cue to toss your head back, letting your left hand fall to your side in slo-mo as you lean backward. (Relax, the testosterone will kick in and your leading man will instinctively grab you tighter so you don't hit the deck.)

While in repose, take the lead again and part your pucker slightly to invite him to pull you up for some full-on Frenching. Alternate tongue techniques between a gentle flicker and a circular rotation until one of your has to yell "Cut!" to come up for air.

The Sweet Tease

The gang is at a bar on Friday night, and although you're trying like hell to stay fully engaged in a discussion on the virtues of low-carb beer, something else has your total attention: your man's ass in those Levi's. Sure, you could pull him into the ladies' room and ravish him. But we recommend building up to the impending erotic Olympics with a little pregame PDA. The thrill of the chase is always enticing, the idea is to tease your partner in a way that shows him what's in store for later but also lets the tension mount. So give him some sugar…just enough to totally satisfy your sweet tooth.

To kick off the coy canoodle, start by slowly grazing your lips up the side of his neck, covering every inch of exposed skin with tiny kisses. Moving up to his earlobe, flirtatiously nibble until you've secured his full attention. Now brush your lips over his and whisper in close range that he's never looked sexier. When his eyes widen, lock him into a seductive gaze, and without soliciting "Get a room!" from the crowd, subtly trace his lower lip with your tongue.

After a few mouthwatering moments, initiate lip-o-suction. Gently use both of your lips to suck or tug on his lower lip for a second or two, then back off and work his top lip. Continue alternating between his top and bottom lips as he tries to slip you the tongue; immediately cut the session short with a giggle and whisper in his ear exactly what you're going to do to him later.

The Sizzling Send-Off

Whether your man is heading out on a weeklong trip or just leaving for his job one morning, good-bye has to count. After all, it's this moment that'll fire your desire to see each other again and brew sexy tension before the next reunion. Show your partner exactly how much you're going to miss him and leave him with something to think about — namely, you. After this smooch, he'll be questioning how long he can live without you!

Here's how to make it memorable: He'll be expecting sap, so surprise him with unexpected sizzle. First, pull his head toward you using a little force. Then lick your finger and part his lips to prime him for a passion pant. Press your lips to his, creating an airtight seal, then open your mouth, maintaining lip contact, and inhale deeply. You'll take his breath away, literally. Right about now is when he'll forget his reason for leaving. Back off a touch, then grab his belt loops and yank his pelvis toward you. When you feel the heat emanating from his package, that's your signal to go in for round two. Ding, ding, ding! Make this one really count. Then release your Romeo, giving him a cheeky pat on his bum. You'll feel his eyes burning a hole through your butt as you turn and walk away.

Kissing Tricks That Will Drive Him Crazy

Employ these sizzling tactics before, during, and after sex to boost your action in the bedroom...

Kissing is often considered a means to an end. It’s how many couples kick off their sack sessions, but as soon as things start heating up, making out usually falls by the wayside. Some people think that sex is so full of pleasure on its own that kissing isn’t important.

And that’s a damn shame because locking lips throughout the sexual experience (and not just at the very beginning of getting busy) can make the pleasure skyrocket considerably. There are tons of nerve endings in your lips that stimulate desire, smooching before, during, and after intercourse can be extremely arousing and satisfying.

However, not all puckers are created equal; the trick is knowing what mouth-to-mouth moves intensify each stage of sex. Luckily, we’ve gone ahead and mapped it out for you. Try these tips to kiss your way to total bliss.

Foreplay: Tease Him With Soft Pecks

Just as a runner needs to stretch before a race, your bod requires an equally strategic warm-up before launching into full-throttle passion. You don’t want to come on too strong with your lips or you might accelerate his excitement too quickly, Instead, ease him into the pleasure zone, gradually increasing his arousal. The slower the buildup, the bigger the bang.

    * Give him little pecks all over his face — everywhere except the lips. As his excitement grows, trace the outline of his mouth with the tip of your tongue. He’ll be aching to envelop you with his mouth, but don’t let him do it...yet.
    * Move on to open-mouth puckers, but no tongue allowed. If he tries to French you, pull away from him for a minute, then return to kissing. The point is to be playful and work him into a desire-filled frenzy by not giving him exactly what he wants.
    * Add some playfulness into the mix by gently sucking and lightly nibbling on his lower lip every now and then. It will feel so good, he’ll instinctively return the favor.

During the Act: Bring It to the Boiling Point

Once you are both fired up, coy smooches just aren’t going to cut it. This is the perfect time to engage each other’s mouths, no tongues barred. Passionate kisses elevate your blood pressure and cause your heart to beat faster, getting you more excited and making it easier for you to reach orgasm. Here’s how to stoke the flame.

    * Strip down, and tell him to sit on a chair. Then straddle him so that you are eye to eye. As he focuses on thrusting, take his tongue into your mouth, and very lightly suck on it so your lip action mimics the rhythm of his hips.
    * Vary the intensity and depth of the lip-locks you lay on your bedmate. Give him long, soulful French kisses for a couple minutes, then surprise him by keeping your lips open and pressing them against his — hard — like you want to devour him whole. Then return to the soulful French kissing. Maintain the back-and-forth so he can’t guess what’s coming when. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will amp up his excitement even more.
    * You should let him know the passionate pressure is quickly building inside you by switching up your moves and trying something even more erotic. Unlock your lips periodically, and swirl your tongue around his in a circular motion as if you were licking an ice-cream cone. He will love that you’re in control and essentially taking possession of his entire mouth.

The Big O: Let Your Inner Animal Loose

By the time you’re about to climax, give in to your passionate fervor, and let yourself go absolutely wild. Just follow your body’s cravings. Being mouth to mouth as you peak can make for a much stronger, more intense orgasm because it’s such a carnal act — your senses of taste and smell and touch are all converging at once, it’s like you’re on sensual overload.

    * Softly suck on each other’s necks just as you’re about to reach your peak. The pressure of your lips against his skin will amplify the buildup you’ve been feeling inside and create an even more powerful need for that heavenly release.
    * Run your tongue back and forth along the roof of his mouth. This is a place that rarely gets any attention; the more unique the sensation, the more exciting it is for him.
    * Let him know how hungry you are for him by gently biting his back and shoulders, spots on his body that can take a little roughhousing. Place the skin lightly between your teeth and pull; then run your tongue around the area and kiss it.
    * If you’re in a face-to-face passion position, supersize your orgasm by French-kissing him at the same time that you’re climaxing.

Afterplay: Take It Easy to Wind Down

Though you may want to keep the postorgasmic embers burning, your guy’s fire is probably pretty much extinguished at this point. After sex, sleep-inducing chemicals are released in men, so your guy’s mind and body will be more intent on sleeping than kissing, but there are still ways for you to get the together time you crave.

    * If his energy is depleted but you’re still jonesin’ for closeness, lavish him from head to toe with luscious kisses. Planting your lips on his face, shoulders, back — wherever — conveys warmth and tenderness without making him feel pressured to respond.
    * Spoon him from behind, and kiss the nape of his neck as you sensually stroke his hair. This position lets him chill out while you get the postsex canoodling you desire.
    * When you have had enough and are finally ready for some shut-eye, give him a quick, sweet peck to wrap up your evening of ecstasy.

Put Your Mouth Here Too!
These nerve-packed zones deserve a little lip service.

EARS
You’ll make the hair on the nape of his neck stand up if you playfully kiss his earlobes. Then trace the outline of his ear with the tip of your tongue — bonus points if you whisper all the naughty things you have in store for him.

FINGERS
Take his pointer finger into your mouth, and suck on it in the same way that you would suck on his member, moving your mouth up and down the entire length in slow, even motions. Then watch his eyes roll back in his head.

CHEST
A guy’s pecs can be as sensitive as your breasts are, but they’re too often ignored. Send chills through his bod by licking around the areolae, gently blowing them dry, and sucking his nipples.

Talking Dirty

When you think about what makes sex good, the physical factors most likely come to mind: how you touch each other, the positions you try, and the body parts you focus on. But there's another key contributor that is often overlooked: the words you utter. Speaking or hearing erotically charged words stimulates dopamine transmission, which plays a huge role in sexual excitement, they can enhance the emotional and physical intensity of the experience.

Sounds great...but what should you say that won't seem ridiculous? (Unless you're a porn star, "Do me hard, bad boy!" probably doesn't roll off the tongue.) Most women aren't sure what sounds sexy, so they don't say anything, as a result, you're missing out on pleasure — which is so not right.

Here's a revelation: On a Sirius Cosmo Radio show about talking sexy in bed, tons of guys called in to share the phrase that gets them hotter than any other. By a landslide, it was "I'm coming." Yup, that's it. And what about women? Are there words with similar superpowers for us? We turned to Kerner, who divulged a sentence tailored to maximize your satisfaction.

For His Pleasure

"I'm coming." So simple, so powerful. This sentence is like the sex version of bacon — men freakin' love it. Being a great lover is a prime source of pride for guys, telling him you're about to orgasm is the ultimate accolade. It's proof that he's successfully satisfying you. What's more, he's gotten you so aroused that you're out of control — this phrase suggests that even if you tried, you couldn't stop from tumbling over the edge.

Announcing your orgasm's arrival also amps up anticipation for that pivotal moment, thus enhancing enjoyment for both of you. Plus, since most men are ready to climax before women are, this gives him permission to come, that's definitely music to his, um, ears.

For Your Pleasure

Women, on the other hand, want something less basic than bacon.  "I love it when you [verb] my [body part]," such as "I love it when you rub my thigh/kiss my neck/lick my breasts." Verbalizing the sensation brings your attention to it, which reinforces the pleasure you're experiencing. It's like eating a yummy meal — talking about how delicious it is can make it even tastier.

This phrase also helps you stay in the moment, if your mind starts wandering or you're stressing about other stuff, expressing what's happening to you keeps you focused on what you're feeling that second.

Your guy gets off on it too.It shows him that he's doing something right,  and once he knows you dig that move, he'll probably repeat it. Excellent.

New Methods in Foreplay

We have uncovered some surprisingly sensitive parts of the body; touching them will get you both insanely turned on.

Chances are, you and your guy have a few go-to moves that are guaranteed to get you both hot and primed for action. And while it's great that you know what works on your bodies, sticking to the same old thing (an ear nibble here, a nipple lick there) won't lead to a bed-shaking finale. When you touch each other in a familiar way every time, your body becomes desensitized, and it won’t feel as arousing. So, on the hunt for new tricks, we consulted top foreplay experts and discovered uncharted erogenous zones so packed with powerful nerve endings, just touching them takes you from 0 to, um, 69. Read on to find out where they are and how you can electrify them tonight.

SWEET SPOT 1
The Ultrasensitive Border Around the Lips

Okay, so you know how to kiss. But what you probably don't know is that there's an undercover pleasure transmitter, the buccal nerve, surrounding the edges of the mouth. This area is extremely sensitive to touch, but it's often overlooked since most people focus on the plump part of the lips, if you try lightly tracing the tip of your finger around the edges of your mouth (like you’re putting on lip liner), you'll experience a tingly, almost ticklish feeling.When you're making out, you don't need to lick around his entire mouth to get the benefits — that would be weird. Instead, kiss him as you normally do, then use the tip of your tongue to trace the edge of his upper lip lightly. Pull back and playfully kiss him again, then trace the border of his bottom lip. This action subconsciously reminds him of your tongue swirling around the tip of his penis. This technique works when he does it to you too, triggering thoughts of what his tongue can do below the belt.

SWEET SPOT 2
That Sexy Dip Where Neck Meets Chest

The entire area between your jawline and shoulders is an erogenous zone, but there's one particular destination that'll spark more goose bumps than any other part. It's that little indentation where the neck connects with the collarbone. The skin is thinner there, and there's not as much fatty tissue underneath, so the sensations are stronger. In other words, touching this area feels damn good. So as you kiss down his neck, trail the tips of your index and middle fingers from one shoulder to the dip in the center, lingering to swirl your fingers in a slow, circular motion. Then move your mouth over the spot and kiss it, using your breath to warm the area.The combination of the heat and touch relaxes the body, turning you on, plus, when your guy touches you here, your entire chest becomes more sensitive, including your breasts, which increases your pleasure.

 SWEET SPOT 3
The Erotic Pathways on the Sides of the Torso

Snaking from the bottom of the rib cage to the hips is a powerful nerve that, when stimulated, connects directly to your clitoris and your man's penis. When you touch this area, it reflexively causes the pelvic-floor muscles to contract in both men and women, which increases arousal. You'll want to use a firmer touch here, since it's more ticklish than other spots. Start on one side, just underneath the rib cage, and either stroke the area with your hand or alternate between kissing (apply more pressure than usual with your lips) and lightly nibbling your way down to the hipbone. On a guy, you'll actually see his testicles and penis contracting, and you'll feel the contractions in your vaginal wall and clitoral area as he does the same move on you. The benefits here are twofold: Not only does it feel insanely good in the moment, but those pelvic contractions also create a buildup to one hell of an orgasm.

SWEET SPOT 4
That Pleasure Mound on the Lower Back

The knob at the base of the spine is rife with nerves with major pleasure potential. To take advantage, give each other a sexy rubdown.Start at the shoulder blades, and work your hands down in a kneading motion. At the lower back, switch to a softer touch, and lightly spiral your fingers over the base. This area is so receptive, just the softest touch will send chills throughout the body. Other sexy ideas: Lightly graze your cheek against the area — the unexpected skin on skin sparks an increase in the excitement hormone dopamine. Then softly kiss and trace your tongue along the same spot (just make sure he's shaved before he tries this on you). You can also brush the tips of your hair against the skin and then switch to raking your fingernails gently across it to deepen the sensation.

SWEET SPOT 5
The Teasing Trail on the Thighs

One of the most explosive nerves in the body is located at the top of the inner thigh, it's called the ilioinguinal nerve, and it's incredibly sensitive to touch. In fact, it's best to save it for last and work your way up to it. Start by licking your finger (the wetness increases the stimulation) and slowly drawing it from the mid–inner thigh to the top. Then follow the path you just traced with your tongue, teasing your way to the upper region. Because the skin here is tender, it's important to watch how he reacts. If he flinches, you're exciting the nerve to the point where it feels too ticklish. The fix: Give the area firmer kisses (it'll work on you too). As your guy touches you here, you'll notice your breath becoming more rapid and your pelvis starting to spasm in that must-have-you-now way. The reason: Caressing this area indirectly stimulates the genitals, since the nerves around it are firing pleasure signals to the brain. Now is the time to put your guy's hand exactly where you're craving it… and enjoy the ride.

 Too-Long Foreplay

A slow passion buildup is hot—to a point. Quit fooling around and do it already if…

• Your old carpal tunnel has kicked in from so much "handiwork."

• The new seductive sandalwood candle you lit suddenly smells very strong. Oh, wait, it's burned down to the bedside table.

• You've had so much skin-on-skin contact that your boobs are chafing.

• Your Twitter followers have filed a missing-person report.

• The only things you've eaten in the past 48 hours are whipped cream and strawberries.

• You've done the tips in this article so many times that for dirty talk, you're able to recite them to each other.

• You're starting to think that there's such a thing as "blue ovaries."

An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.

The British National Health Service earlier this year announced, “An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away,”. This created an uproar, with educators and health experts calling it deplorable and warning that it would encourage "risky" behavior and STDs.

Okay, maybe the Health Service did go a bit too far when they created a page from a fictional high-school girl’s weekly planner with handwritten reminders to “masturbate!” and “bring condoms to the date on Saturday!” But it turns out, they have a very strong point. “There are a number of health benefits to be gained from having sex or an orgasm — or many orgasms — daily. The stress-relief goodies are obvious, along with better sleep and some PMS pain relief. But that’s just the small stuff.


Experts agree that there’s growing evidence of wide-ranging health benefits of orgasms, starting with the biggie: longevity. Research shows that men who have two or more orgasms a week live longer than do guys who have fewer than that. And while female orgasms haven’t yet been studied separately, another study shows that women who report enjoying intercourse live longer than do women who reported less pleasure in sex.

One reason for the longevity bonus could be that orgasms have positive effects on various organs and body systems. For instance, Studies are showing that as sexual activity goes up, the risk of breast cancer goes down. This could be due to the surge of hormones like oxytocin that comes with arousal and orgasm.

There is also evidence that frequent orgasms may protect against heart attacks and keep our brains healthy. Functional MRI images show that women’s brains utilize much more oxygen during orgasm than usual, similar to the effects of exercise, In other words, the brain is being nourished, which helps keep your mind sharp.


Meanwhile, you’re also blocking pain. Studies have shown that orgasms can work as natural analgesics to help alleviate menstrual cramps, migraines, and other aches. “Instead of ‘Not tonight honey, I have a headache,’ maybe it should be, ‘Yes, tonight, I need it, I have a headache.’”

It’s possible that the hormone rush during climax may also function as a natural sedative. A study of more than 2000 American women who reported masturbating found that a whopping 42 percent said they did so to help them drop off to sleep.

And — maybe partly because of all that stress relief and beauty sleep — orgasms are good for your looks as well. In a study of 3,500 people, those who were rated to look 7 to 12 years younger than they they nearly always achieve orgasm alone, while less than half say that holds true during sex with a partner.


But if you plan to have a daily orgasm the way you plan to have your yogurt and granola in the morning, won’t that make sex a tad unspontaneous? On the contrary,Daily is an ideal. You may not always have the time or the energy, but we can aim high. Take it out of a to-do list mental category, she advises, and think of it as a personal investment. And use the frequency as an incentive to experiment.Explore the differences in response and the potential different kinds of orgasms you can have.

Including the solo kind, which offers the same boons as boyfriend-induced Orgasams You don’t need to be in a relationship with another person for regular orgasms to be a huge health plus, You can be in a relationship with yourself and reap the same benefits.

Not only does all this stimulation kind of bathe you in a sexy glow — if you’re having that much sex, it’s going to be on your mind more, and that shows on your face and in your movements — but it also becomes this fabulous self-fulfilling prophecy. Because you’re thinking about it more, your hormone levels are elevated...so you have more sex...which makes you think about sex more often. Even if you don’t end up living longer, you’ll have a helluva lot more fun.