What Turns Them On?

People make 90% of their opinion about us in the first 4 minutes.

Physical desirability is determined in the first 10 seconds.

You do not have to look like the latest Hollywood hunk or runway supermodel to be attractive to the opposite sex. By understanding why and how people are attracted to you and employing these strategies you can easily have them looking your way.

Gender signals operate on a subconscious level. Which has been passed on by are ancestors. Do men perceive beauty over personality and intelligence? Flowers have beautiful colors to be attractive in a deep forest. They let you know about their condition this way. It is the same for human attraction. A man is attracted to a woman when she shows the possibility of him passing on his genes. An attractive man for a woman is usually one who can provide food and safety. Looks are not always a number one priority for woman but rather a sense of security. They are usually attracted to older men because of this.

What turns men on the most?

Men are visual beings. They first see the physical beauty of a woman and if she could carry his gene. But a man does not seek the same physical lust in a long term partner. But more for a stable relationship and someone who can care for him and the family.

A woman's body seems to have been created as a sexual signaling system for men.

Men's turn on

1. Athletic Body

A fit body is a sign of health and shows that she is able to bear children and is most likely able to defend herself and her offspring form danger. Some extra pudge is usually more attractive because it helps in breastfeeding.

2. Full Breasts

Late teens and early twenties are men's favorite for breasts. As this is a woman's sexual and reproductive peak. Typical of what you would find in clothing ads and erotic magazines. But don't worry if yours are not quite like that because research and common knowledge show that men love breasts no matter what size. So they are not only attracted to large breasts. They just simply love them all.

Breasts are mostly fat tissue which is not involved in the production of milk but gives them that contoured look. Breast mostly change only a little during pregnancy. They are usually used for sexual signaling.

The patch around the nipple is called the areola and it has small glands that during sexual activity actually emit a scent. Which in turn stimulates the male brain. Now that goes to show you why men like to spend there time there.

3. Long Legs

A stairway to heaven: The more leg a man sees and the longer they are the better because it draws attention up above.

When a girl reaches puberty her legs lengthen and become a signal to males that she is sexually maturing. Which is it is associated with sexuality. Teenage girls learn of this early and start to wear high healed shoes to make their legs seem longer and short skirts. Men like high heels because they make a woman look more sexual by making her legs seem longer, arching her back, making her butt stick out, thrusting her pelvis forward.

Men are more attracted to thicker legs then muscular legs for sake of sexual differences. It has been shown woman will unconsciously select more revealing dresses/skirts and heels during her menstrual cycle/ovulating.

4. Rounded waist/hips

Woman have been trying to keep or get the hourglass figure by any means possible for the last five centuries. Even if it meant great pain, suffering and work. This meant broken ribs, damaged internal parts, reduced breathing etc. All this from wearing a bustie to look like an hourglass figure. A woman is most attractive to a man when her hip to waist ratio is 70%. The hourglass being her waist is 70% the size of her hips. Usually interest is lost if ratio exceeds 80%. A ratio of 100% or more attracts little attention as this shows fat distribution around the womb and ovaries and is a non verbal indication of lower fertility. Your body moves fat away from vital organs such as the heart, brain, and testicals. Woman who are fixed gain fat around the stomach like men because they no longer have reproductive organs.

5. The Derrier

A rounded peach shaped buttock is considered most attractive for men. The woman's buttocks stores fat for breast feeding and storage for lean times. This is also why bigger buttocks are also considered attractive.

If you where to look at past females they would purposely try to make their buttocks seem larger. But today this is seen as bad health and over-indulgence.

Designer jeans help in giving the buttocks a firm rounded look. High heel shoes make your back arch and push your buttocks outward. And also makes you wiggle when you walk. Which this all helps to obviously attract male attention. A real attention grabber is the latest jeans that show the top part of the bum.

6. Flat Belly

A flat belly indicates that she is not pregnant. And second most importantly that she is in good health. This being why gymnasium and yoga classes are filled with people trying and getting a flat tummy. Sit ups are an easy exercise for at home.

Tummy tops and hip huggers are used to show more of the stomach. And at the same time draw more attention to the hips. Making them seem larger and more within reach (teasing).

Jewelry is a good way to attract attention to your stomach. Such as a belly button ring or a gold or silver chain around the waist. Most males find this very attractive s it aids in making your hips seem larger and your waist narrower.

7. Arched Back & Vulva

A woman's body is much smaller and curvier then a man's. Her upper back is narrower and her lower back is wider and her spine more arched. The arching makes the buttocks protrude and push the breast forward.

All of these curves and arches is a sign of feminity. Ask any woman to be sexy and her first position will usually be an exaggerated back-arch and hip-tilt with one or both arms placed on her hips to take up more space and so be more likely to attract attention.

8. Long Neck

Men's necks are short, wide and strong. They are this way to prevent them from snapping. And to carry heavy objects such as animals after a hunt.

Meaning that the female's long neck is a strong gender signal, which men love to kiss and see adorned with jewelry.

9. The face

Small faces with short chins, delicate jaws, high cheekbones, full lips, and eyes that are big in proportion to the face. In general a vulnerable childish face and a wide smile are most loved by men.

This triggers paternal reactions in men to protect and a sexual reaction to touch. The fact that men are attracted to young faces has driven older woman to achieve this look thru plastic surgery. You can find a few examples on your own just by looking at Hollywood's finest.

We will now go over every part of the face to see how the male brain reacts to them:

10. Sensual Mouth

Humans are the only animals to have their lips on the outside. A woman's lips are the same thickness as her vagina and both when aroused expand and fill with blood.

Lipstick mimics this state: Telling men that she is turned on by him or interested in him. Bright red lipstick is one of the strongest sexual signals a woman can use. Blushing is also a state of arousal. Rouge is worn to create this effect permanently. Face powder gives the skin a smooth flawless complexion giving a teenage complexion.

11. Ear Lobes

The length of a woman's earlobes is also a strong sexual signal. Woman in Africa have been purposely expanding them for thousands of years.

Today this is achieved by wearing long earrings. It is proven that the more the earrings dangle the more the men are attracted. Although the use of long earrings often is not a good idea as they can cause damage. Use them more for romantic encounters.

The use of more subtle lipstick and eye shadow should be considered in the business world. As it may attract the wrong attention from males and cause rivalry with other females.

12. Attractive eyes

Large eyes are attractive in most countries. Makeup is used to make the eyes seem larger to men therefore giving them the protective feeling. If a woman is attracted in a man, her pupils dilate, and mascara, eye shadow and eyeliner all create a permanent state of attractiveness. Contact lenses give the eyes a glossy, dilated look. Experiments show men are strangely attracted to woman wearing contacts.

Celebrities caught without make up are photographed and displayed in magazines to make other woman feel good about themselves. The modern woman has become so used to makeup that they think they are ugly without it. Make up should be used as an aid to entice the natural beauty that all woman have. Men find this more attractive then those who use it as a mask to hide behind.

13. Small nose

A childlike feature that once again brings out the protective parental feelings in a man. Most cartoons are drawn with large eyes and a cute button nose to win over the hearts of The viewers. This being the reason for nose surgery to form the nose 35-40 degrees to the face. And giving it a childlike appearance.

14. Long hair

A single hair lives for 6 years; you loose 80-100 hairs a day. Blondes have an average of 140,000 hairs, brunettes 110,000 and redheads 90,000. Blondes have higher estrogen levels that men pick up on and see them as being more fertile. Blonde hair is also seen as a sign of youth.

Smooth, silky clean looking hair is seen as a sign of good health. And the capability to carry offspring. Out of a survey of 5000 men 75% of them where more attracted to long hair as the other 12% was for shorter hair. And the other had no preference.

Remember keep it long to attract and wear it short for business.